I think it's a lot easier for a guy to sit there and say that it's not a big deal. In most cases the guy doesn't even stick around to be in the woman's life that he got pregnant and his own child's. There are so many things to go through while being pregnant. I know from some family experiences that unplanned pregnancies are very tough. My cousin got his girlfriend pregnant. They both decided they would go through with it. He played football at college, and it was really hard for him to deal with school, football, and then finding out his girlfriend was pregnant. She could have gone to college for basketball, but couldn't because she was having this child. She didn't get to experience going away to college. Instead, she's starting her life early and everything changed. I'm not saying all guys do, but most guys will just walk out when something like this happens. The woman is left dealing with everything and worrying about all that is going on.