There have been plenty of times where I have heard rumors about someone and then went to a friend and repeated something that was kind of rude and I shouldn't have said. A lot of people do that and half the time they don't even realize they were doing that. I remember this one time in Jr. High I had a heard a rumor and everyone was talking about it and since everyone was talking about it I decided to chime in and say somethign rude. I knew it wasn't the right thing to do but all my friends were talking about so I decided to say something. Which was definitly the wrong choice. The person found out what I had said and got mad at me. I don't blame her, I would have been mad if someone was talking behind my back. We talked about it and figured everything out but after that I know now to keep my mouth such in situations like that. Only bad things can come out of bad situations.