I have said many things that have hurt people and at the time i felt like it was the right thing to do, but afterwards i feel horrible about myself and i want to take back every word. I do try to think before i talk but when my anger kicks in, I say some very rude things. Whenever i know i am going to say things i will want to take back i just step away from the situation. I dont try to forget about it, but i instead let myself cool down. I usually go do something by myself so that i dont take my anger out on people aroung me. I have been in a lot of situations where i hear people are saying rude things about me and i really would want to go and yell at them. I have learned though, that yelling at someone never solves a problem, and that talking to the person in a very mature manner will. Lately, i have had some problems and i tried acting mature, and it worked. I did not say anything rude and neither did the other person. We worked out our problem and now everything is fine. Saying rude things to people will never solve a problem and it always bites you in the butt in the end.